Distorting. Says who?

The amount of times we find ourselves saying “thats not what I said” or “thats not what I meant” may not be many, yet when we do it can often lead to huge conflict. In some instances it can be so frustrating to be with someone that misinterprets what we say and turn it to mean something that suits their needs. Many an argument occurs as a consequence of information being...

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Distortion deletes other possibilities?

The way we are able to function and the degree to which we are at ease with ourselves and the world we live in is largely dependant on our ability to distort information. The important question that needs to be asked is do we generally find that our mind is predisposed to distort for good or  bad? Lets say that we are predisposed to seeing the glass half empty.  The reality of the glass...

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Distortion is easier for the dyslectic?

As I continue to blog about distortion, the thought has crossed my mind about the affects of dyslexia.  For many years I thought that there was something dreadfully wrong with my reading and writing abilities.  I kept much of my concern concealed and managed to function as best as I could. So what is the connection between dyslexia and distortion?  For me, dyslexia is not something that one is...

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Distorting what you say is easy for some.

Your attention  has been brought to how we might distort information. It is obviously important to question information that is processed by us and ensure that we have the most accurate interpretation and best outcome for our needs. In the same way we need to ensure that we minimize the possibility of distortion occurring with the message received by another person. All too often information...

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Distortions can be controlled.

Distortion continued. The Tetris example from the previous blog in some ways demonstrates our needs to control the flow of information entering our psyche. If left unchecked it will enter the realms of our validation system in the way that it usualy does. Not a bad thing if we are prone to see our world in a good light at best or indifferent at worst. You can check this by pausing to see if you...

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