Change comes at a price that you may not want to pay?

Most of the people that I come into contact with want some things to be different. They want to change something. It is interesting how they express that desire in negative context. In other words they will tell you want is happening that is causing them stress and will tell you that they don’t want it any more. You may have noticed something here. They are clear that they are not...

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OMG – OMG – OMG – If I say it three times it will come true?

So how does it work? Absurd magical beliefs (A-M-B) have been with us for as long as we have been conscious. They are designed to reduce the stress and tension that otherwise might overwhelm our being and possibly cause damage to our neural network. The rabbits foot, works miracles for millions of people.  Just the fact that it is on their person is enough to bring calm to their...

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Beginnings and endings. How can you have one without the other.

How is it that we so want things to be different but want not to change? It is as if we want to eat a pear whilst continuing to bite the apple. At the same time we have our hands full of apples and are not prepared to let go . Logic, which from time to time can come in useful, tells us that unless we empty our hands of whatever it is we are holding we can not pick something else up. Yet we...

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Hyper-realists are better connected to the fantasy matrix

Hyper-realists are in many ways better connected to their inner world than most people. Those who suffer  reality and can easily step into the magical world of hyper-realism have probably had a very active imagination in childhood.  It is not anyone’s fault, its just the way things turned out. While one person can immerse themselves in a world where anything is possible the...

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