Thinking about change is not enough.

So many of the people I meet and treat are trapped by a simple yet illusive misconception; that thinking about change is enough. Whist thinking about change is admirable there is no substitute for action. Often I hear about what people are going to do. The thing where attention needs to be focused is the action that people take and the steps that follow. So many people squander time with wishful...

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Hyper-realists are better connected to the fantasy matrix

Hyper-realists are in many ways better connected to their inner world than most people. Those who suffer  reality and can easily step into the magical world of hyper-realism have probably had a very active imagination in childhood.  It is not anyone’s fault, its just the way things turned out. While one person can immerse themselves in a world where anything is possible the...

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Hyper-realism. The free drug of choice.

The chances of escaping this sophisticated auto-generated drug is not easy. It is as seductive as sugar at the low levels of addition and heroin at the other. What makes it so powerful is its ability to make everything perfect.  Imagine that you could do and have anything you wanted.  That you could feel blissful, almost any time of day or night is seductive.  Imagine being in a...

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