Change comes at a price that you may not want to pay?

Most of the people that I come into contact with want some things to be different. They want to change something. It is interesting how they express that desire in negative context. In other words they will tell you want is happening that is causing them stress and will tell you that they don’t want it any more. You may have noticed something here. They are clear that they are not...

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Unfortunately his perception was faulty and misdirected his thinking.

Perception is what the mind does with what it sees.  How often we forget to check the basis of our assumptions and land up thinking something that is inaccurate, yet experience it as right and true. It is interesting that having made the decision that something is so, we often are defiant when it is suggested that we might have misconceived the idea. It is as if the mule inside of us...

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Hyper-realists are better connected to the fantasy matrix

Hyper-realists are in many ways better connected to their inner world than most people. Those who suffer  reality and can easily step into the magical world of hyper-realism have probably had a very active imagination in childhood.  It is not anyone’s fault, its just the way things turned out. While one person can immerse themselves in a world where anything is possible the...

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Hyper-realism. The free drug of choice.

The chances of escaping this sophisticated auto-generated drug is not easy. It is as seductive as sugar at the low levels of addition and heroin at the other. What makes it so powerful is its ability to make everything perfect.  Imagine that you could do and have anything you wanted.  That you could feel blissful, almost any time of day or night is seductive.  Imagine being in a...

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