Distorting. Says who?

The amount of times we find ourselves saying “thats not what I said” or “thats not what I meant” may not be many, yet when we do it can often lead to huge conflict. In some instances it can be so frustrating to be with someone that misinterprets what we say and turn it to mean something that suits their needs. Many an argument occurs as a consequence of information being...

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Distortion deletes other possibilities?

The way we are able to function and the degree to which we are at ease with ourselves and the world we live in is largely dependant on our ability to distort information. The important question that needs to be asked is do we generally find that our mind is predisposed to distort for good or  bad? Lets say that we are predisposed to seeing the glass half empty.  The reality of the glass...

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