Without thought feelings are a tyranny.

We are often trapped by feelings that seem to just happen. Feelings such as guilt, fear and a whole lot more. We seem to accept these negative experiences by default and rarely examine our perception to explore how it is that we are having these feeling. We rarely analyse our interpretation of the events that mould our experience. We just land up feeling what we feel. We are trapped into a...

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Changing direction is compelling for some and virtually imposible for others..

Change is not easy at best and virtually impossible at worst. Changing behaviours or situations is not designed to be easy.We are designed to find stability  and hold on to it;  In some cases, for dear life. Change is about things not being the same. It is about having things happen one way and deciding to do them differently. It is about removing ourselves from one environment to...

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? The talent is in the choice.

Several people have asked me to expand on what I mean by “the talent is in the choices”.  In essence it is about the ability to see the options available and by choosing the very best option and acting upon it to gain the best of any given situation. Furthermore by utilising, or not, ones ability to create opportunities where few exist is also a talent and a choice.  We can...

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Bullied by opportunities? Trapped by choice?

In chapter 7 of my forthcoming book Change Directions, I discuss a type of pressure that is not often understood. Perhaps the reason for this is that it does not appear to be a problem ; rather an opportunity. Furthermore, it is mostly perceived as a strength. The problem is that of having too many choices. So many in fact that we are left bullied by the shear volume of opportunities or...

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